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Welcome to 'Your Healing,' a safe space to explore and nurture our healing and wellbeing—together!

Healing from trauma can be a lonely, challenging process, no matter what stage of the journey you’re at. We invite you to connect with fellow survivors and share your insights and experiences on the healing journey¹. Together, we can navigate the many ways to nurture our healing, wellbeing², & growth. This community aims to cultivate curiosity, support, insight, & hope.

Remember, there’s no strict roadmap to follow, nor are any two healing journeys ever the same. This is ‘Your Healing’, in whatever way works best for you—and it can be navigated together!

¹We don’t publish stories of sexual violence in detail. Please visit We-Speak instead.

²We’ll tag the wellbeing catagories as the journeys come in.

My assault journey

In early February, I was attacked while walking my dog before work. It was just after 5:30 a.m. A man I didn’t know came at me with a knife. The physical wounds are healing. The emotional ones—fear, hypervigilance, guilt—are harder to treat. In the days after, I asked myself over and over: Why was I

Trigger Warning! Dear Reader, this content contains details of Sexual violence or abuse Domestic violence or abuse Justice system or process which some may find distressing.

I’m stronger than steel…I am still here

Attacked by (content redacted) who had known me since I was 14, he then stole my dog and harassed me online. This experience has taught me that I’m made of granite, I’m stronger than steel. I wish I wasn’t because it’s exhausting but I am. I wish I didn’t have to have been strong, forced

Trigger Warning! Dear Reader, this content contains details of Sexual violence or abuse Domestic violence or abuse which some may find distressing.

“An outpouring of love and support from survivors”

In the moments where you are doubting yourself, your truths, your body and mind, just remember that this is YOUR body, YOUR mind and YOUR TRUTH. Abusers take so much from us. We can’t let them take our truth. My truth is that for years during and after the abuse, I felt like I didn’t

Trigger Warning! Dear Reader, this content contains details of Sexual violence or abuse Domestic violence or abuse Justice system or process which some may find distressing.

The Healing Power of Community

Healing is no easy quest; it’s challenging, non-linear, and unique to everyone. But, it doesn’t have to be navigated alone. Sharing your healing journey not only empowers you, but also serves as a beacon of hope and insight for others.

Share your journey

Positive self-talk, some advice :)

Hey survivors!! Thought I’d share this little nugget of information with you as I found it pretty interesting 🙂 Instead of saying “I’m really anxious” or “I’m angry” “I’m sad”, I was told to say “I am feeling anxious, I am feeling really angry or I’m feeling sad” because we are not our emotions or

Tapping

I’m a huge fan of emotional freedom technique EFT or tapping as it’s more commonly known. It’s similar to accupuncture but without the needles so it’s less invasive. I find it’s great to use alongside affirmations. I connect really well with it and feel a sense of calmness and emotional release. I find it very

"Healing out loud because I nearly died in silience" - Unknown"

Beginners mindfulness recommendations?

Does anyone know of any beginners mindfulness class I could do online? Preferably a group class! Thanks.

I truly believe survivors are stronger together

I’m on a healing journey but I don’t know where the destination is, I find myself grieving for the life I once knew and person I knew myself to be, I’m starting over repeatedly trying to rebuild my life, dealing with trauma is the most vicious cycle. As a result of rape, I lost any

Trigger Warning! Dear Reader, this content contains details of Sexual violence or abuse which some may find distressing.

Healing Journey

In (month) last year I reported my sexual assault to the guards. It’s been a long year and trying to wrap my head around things and process what is happening along side everyday life can be difficult. I’ve found regular therapy sessions vital for my own mental health. I’ve discovered that the emotions are like

Trigger Warning! Dear Reader, this content contains details of Sexual violence or abuse Justice system or process which some may find distressing.

"We don’t have to do all of it alone. We were never meant to." - Brené Brown

I’m so f**king angry

I’m really angry that I have to heal and work so hard to heal from something that wasn’t my fault. It’s not fair and I’m struggling with accepting that this is my life tbh. The anger and rage inside me bubbles up and I lash out at my family sometimes. It makes me so sad

Trigger Warning! Dear Reader, this content contains details of Self-harm Sexual violence or abuse which some may find distressing.

Anxiety advice

I recently discovered that listening to birds chirping and singing for just 6 mins per day is proven to lower anxiety levels. And to be honest, I find it really works. I listen to it on Spotify in the mornings while I’m making my breakfast or just getting ready and it really makes me feel